If you do, or if you’re that someone, you should certainly check out the excellent Speaking of Faith podcast on the matter. The program focuses on Twelve Steps-style recovery programs and does a fantastic job of explaining the spiritual side of addiction and recovery. The program really opened my eyes, as there are those in my life who struggle with some of these issues.
As you may know, it is not easy to discuss religion in an informed way without embracing hostility. Most people have at least some deeply held convictions, and most people aren’t really capable of talking about these convictions without feeling a need to force others into the same position or die trying. Speaking of Faith is terrific because it doesn’t do that – Krista Tippett, the host and native Oklahoman, is wonderfully skilled at staying out of the way, asking leading questions yet allowing the stories of her guests to drive the program. This program is just another example of that, and I believe that any of you who might have addiction in your life or in the life of a family member should spend an hour with this podcast. No matter what faith you embrace (or even if you reject all faith), this is a worthy approach to addiction and contains universal truths that we can all embrace within our own lives.
I had a grandfather who was able to overcome an alcohol addiction late in his life. The difference that he felt was enormous – when he drank, his family despised him and he them. Following the death of one of his daughters and a rather lengthy speech from one of his doctors, he made a commitment to stop drinking and embrace the family that he had. He spent five years to the day free of alcohol, and those five years were the best of his life. I regret not talking to him more. I am grateful for his example, both because it inspired me to avoid alcohol and other harmful drugs and because it helped me to see the power of personal change. Nobody in my family ever thought he’d stop drinking – we thought he’d die drunk, and likely at the neighborhood tavern. He exceeded all expectations. At his funeral, nobody talked about his alcoholism and recovery, but it was on everyone’s mind. He died a good man, the man his family had always wanted him to be, and there is much to be said for that.
Anyway, at worst, it’s a good program, and you should listen to it. You’ll learn much about the spiritual elements of addiction and the potential for recovery. I hope the story of my grandfather illustrates, at minimum, the power of individuals to make lasting changes in their lives. If you’re addicted to something, I hope you get help. If you have a family member addicted to something, I hope you get help. And, if you’re not addicted to anything, try this instead of alcohol.
